半推半就

[成语]
bàn tuī bàn jiù

[含义]
推：抵拒，推托；就：靠拢，迎上去。一面推辞，一面靠拢上去。形容装腔作势假意推辞的样子。

[来源]
元·王实甫《西厢记》第四本第一折：“半推半就，又惊又爱，檀口揾香腮。”

[例句]
与其学那俗态，～，耽搁工夫；据俺主意，不如从实收了，倒也爽快。 清·李汝珍《镜花缘》第三回

[用法]
联合式；作定语、状语；形容心里愿意，表面推辞

[同义词]
虚情假意、装模作样、半真半假

[反义词]
拒人千里、闭门谢客、婉言谢绝


[英文]
strike an attitude of half-declining and half-accepting so as to provoke the other party to greater or more ardent efforts or to a more agreeable offer